tcpdump is your friend

tcpdump has PF smarts for pflog interfaces, such as

tcpdump -n -e -ttt -i pflog0 inbound and action block and on wi0

or

$ sudo tcpdump -n -ttt -i pflog0 port domain
tcpdump: WARNING: pflog0: no IPv4 address assigned
tcpdump: listening on pflog0, link-type PFLOG
Sep 30 14:27:41.260190 212.5.66.14.53 > 194.54.107.19.53:[|domain]
Sep 30 14:27:41.260253 212.5.66.14.53 > 194.54.107.19.53:[|domain]
Sep 30 14:27:41.260267 212.5.66.14.53 > 194.54.107.19.53:[|domain]
Sep 30 14:27:41.260638 194.54.107.19.53 > 212.5.66.14.53:[|domain]
Sep 30 14:27:41.260798 194.54.107.19.53 > 212.5.66.14.53:[|domain]
Sep 30 14:27:41.260923 194.54.107.19.53 > 212.5.66.14.53:[|domain]